Day 944 - Sacrifice - https://golifelog.com/posts/sacrifice-1690944625864

> There is nothing great about working hard on a hopeless cause. You are not a better person because you are suffering more. Sacrifices can be necessary, but many assume that making sacrifices means they should be rewarded. There is nothing more common than useless sacrifices. – [@orangebook_](https://twitter.com/orangebook_/status/1682709172104876032)

***I felt that.***

What we always hear: "Success requires sacrifice".
What we often extrapolate wrong: "Sacrifice causes success."

Because if you're making sacrifices on the wrong thing, no amount of matrydom will get you to the success you seek. But when you hit on the right thing, you'll be sure you need to hustle hard and sacrifice something to get to the success you seek.

Sacrifice is an effect of a good opportunity, not a cause.

So **be lazy**. Wonder and wander. Window shop around. Don't leap into action and hunker down to work too soon. Work effectively.

The problem for me was when I started out, my spider sense for what's a good opportunity was ways off. I didn't know how to tell what good looks like. So everything became a good opportunity. Which led to too many failed attempts, lost time, wasted effort, and ultimately, burnout.

So in a way, doing it the wrong way, thinking that "sacrifice causes success" is a rite of passage. Without the painful lessons, it's hard to develop that spider sense of opportunities.

But it would have certainly helped if I knew this beforehand.

Success leads to sacrifice, not the other way.
Jason Leow Author

Yep that's the first step, though i suspect the more experienced ones seem to be able to tell a good one faster, and so reduce their time kissing each frog…

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Khyteang Lim

Thank you for the reminder! I definitely needed this this morning. #shinyobjectsyndrome and I am guilty of that.

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Carl Poppa πŸ›Έ

gotta kiss more frogs to get good at frog-kissing πŸ˜‚

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Carl Poppa πŸ›Έ

i don't think anyone really knows what's a good opportunity. gotta kiss a lot of frogs etc.

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Jason Leow Author

Glad it helped @khyteang πŸ˜‰

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Jason Leow Author

and faster

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